Many clients come to me because they are stuck and unable to move forward after a breakup.
They're not sure if they want the relationship back or if they want to let go and move on.
Usually, I will begin by giving the client a psychic reading that explains to them what I see that's causing them to get stuck. We look at the dynamics of the relationship as well as some core issues going on with the client. Once we are clear about what's truly going on in her heart, soul, and mind I then proceed to explain to her my Letting Go Ritual. I personally have used this ritual many times in my own life when I felt stuck in my heart and couldn't get a particular person out of my head.
I developed this ritual, myself after many years of practice, reading, studying, researching, leading, and teaching. Therefore, this ritual is a compilation of a variety of different resources.
I've used this for:
past friendships
past intimate relationships
people that I've worked with
other people that have basically got me all stuck in my head.
The 10 steps to the Letting Go Ritual are as follows:
This ritual works best on a full moon or a new moon. I like to begin the process at least 2-3 minutes before midnight. On the other hand, if you really need to let this person go, and can't wait for one of the special moons, that's okay. Do it now and then you can redo it if you feel like you need to.
Take a piece of paper. At the top of the paper write the name of the person whom you need to release. Use the name that you call them by. Write their birth date on the page. And I like to draw a little picture of the person. It can just be a stick figure or it could be something elaborate. It's up to you.
Then, you're going to write a list of the things that you love about this person. You might even want to write about some special experiences that you had together that you really loved, that made you super happy.
Also, you're going to write about all of the deal breakers, abuses and things that crossed the line. Include the experiences that were cruel, mean, thoughtless and confusing.
When you're finished with your writing you're going to go outside at the specified time. Take that piece of paper along with something to light the paper on fire with.
Connect with the night sky. If it's a full moon, connect with the moon. Take a deep breath. Clear your mind. And when you're ready, you'll light the piece of paper on fire.
And as it's burning, you're going to say. "I release you (the person's name)". Say it three times as you watch the paper burn.
As you see the ashes and smoke float up into the air finally, say out loud. "Thank you for everything you have taught me. Thank you for everything I've learned. However, I am finished. I'm done and Goodbye." Know that it is taking the essence of him/her into the Universe where it is dissipating and becoming nothing.
Then finally. Go back inside. Have yourself a glass of wine. Take a shower. Visualize all of that person's energy and juju vibes flowing off of you and into the drain. Dry off with a clean towel and put it into the laundry. (It's got the juju vibes on it.) Put on clean clothing for bed. The clean clothing represents a new beginning.
And as you lay in bed to go off to sleep begin to visualize your new life without this person in it as you doze off to sleep.
It takes your brain about three days to create new synaptic connections.
So, you'll notice in about 3 days that you are "wow", not thinking about this person so much. And then give it another two days and I promise you will no longer be thinking about this person at all.
This works best if you're truly ready to let go. If it doesn't work for you, then you're not really ready to let go. All right then, so, just do it again. No big deal.
If you use this ritual and do the whole process please leave a comment down below on how it worked out for you. I'd love to hear your comments and results.
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